K00ND0GGER wrote: Thu Sep 15, 2022 5:13 pm
JohnDenver wrote: Thu Sep 15, 2022 5:08 pm
K00ND0GGER wrote: Thu Sep 15, 2022 4:59 pm
I wasn't the one who mentioned it first regarding RV. And if you can't see my sarcasm you missed the whole point.
All this daddy ball crap is how much the parents think they know more than the coaches and want to put their 2 cents in whenever they can. The parents have filled their kids head with "its all about me" type of attitude and when realization sets in that they are not very good they want to blame the coach and walk out on him. What a disgrace. RV will never have success until this mindset changes if it can at all. Why are you scheduling teams like SG, Fed Hock and Manchester? You thought scheduling Eastern again could get you a win and oops. haha
Daddy ball can ruin a program for years. I've seen it happen. But the powers are sometimes afraid of the loud voices and they don't really care enough about the program to fight it. It's easier to give into them so they take the easy route. The kids are the ones that suffer though. But boy daddy, mommy and G'pa are happy for a while, until they lose and then they have to find someone else to blame or move their little Joey to a different school and start the process all over again. For gosh sakes it can't be that Joey just isn't any good, can it?
Exactly! Well said. Leadership in Gallia county let their coaches hang out to dry when it comes to blame time, but they micromanage in ways that are ridiculous. Coaches can’t raise and spend monies they need in Gallia local like in most other places, just to name one thing. Look at Point Pleasant. Darst runs that program from top to bottom and admin gets the hell out of the way. He doesn’t have to beg for resources and can raise whatever isn’t in budget that program needs. He wins at a school that was not a great program when he took over. His success could never happen in GCLS. They’d never give him the freedom to lead without their stamp on it and bringing him to heel to show who’s boss. GCLS, nothing, absolutely nothing happens without going thru the cabal at central office. The board won’t do anything that makes their relatives and friends at central office look bad. They want their fingerprints on any possible success and nowhere to be seen on any failure. No one in admin backs the coaches because it isn’t good for career and besides, chances are they’d be overruled anyway so why even bother. This isn’t the right response by admin, but it is understandable…sort of. The parents are enabled by the nothing burger Incompetent GCLS leadership. Leadership at top level must be the thing that changes the environment. Doubt it will ever happen.