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the new and improved me
Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 10:08 pm
by mvlnewlex
What does everyone think ? I dont like to argue anymore. and I actully spend more time reading than I do posting these days. LOL. I give my opinion. let somebody else express theirs, then I move on.
overall. IRL in general. I think im a much more pleasant person than I was a year ago. I am still passionate. but I dont get bitter. I was sweetened up.
Enough so that I could actully give RiverRatRay a warm big bear hug. And Ballparent a smooch on the cheek.
ok, maybe not. that might be going overboard. but im cool. LOL. You get the point.
Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 10:13 pm
by The Instructor
I have noticed your improvement but why post it on here?
Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 10:17 pm
by ballparent
The Instructor wrote:I have noticed your improvement but why post it on here?
and bring me into it
and RRR, who's a great guy and one of the most calm mellow guys on this forum and does a great job and always has. We appreciate the change but we didn't create your former self and why.......are we talking about this?
Re: the new and improved me
Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 11:50 pm
by BigOrangeOne
newlexpanthers wrote:I was sweetened up.
Enough so that I could actully give RiverRatRay a warm big bear hug.
You need more than "sweetened up" to do that !!!!
Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 2:05 am
by mstangmom
Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 10:21 am
by mvlnewlex
Hey, you got to spread the love around baby.
Tis the Holiday Season.
LOL
Why post it on here ? Because I have had my, decency, integrity, faith, worth and mental health/intelligence unfairly questioned on here. Why not put the other side in context as well ? Of the many things I have wanted to say and never had the nerve. Being a polite, nice and productive poster on this site in recent months says it all. Actions speak louder than words. I am out to prove that people were wrong about me. That I do have a good heart.
And if you can take somebody who has wronged you in the past. And treat them with kindness. That makes YOU the better person. I am out to take the higher road.
Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 11:41 am
by Jozef
newlexpanthers
good for you, it takes a big person to OVERLOOK some people and take the high road.
even like you have done here, some folks preach, if you dont like it dont read it,and if you dont like it ,don't respond, but, they dont practice what they preach
and they like it, and I bet you a doughnut, they will READ and RESPOND again
Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 11:46 am
by mstangmom
Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 9:56 pm
by mvlnewlex
Let me clerify.
There were people who felt that I didnt deserve another chance. Those are the people I am trying to prove wrong.
Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 7:56 am
by noreply66
Everyone stands a second chance--don't ruin it like the man in the white house---now I'm in trouble again----I was a bad boy
Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 2:50 pm
by The Instructor
Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 2:55 pm
by orange-n-brown 365
noreply66 wrote:Everyone stands a second chance--don't ruin it like the man in the white house---now I'm in trouble again----I was a bad boy
dog gone noreply66 are you padding your post again by bashing the Bushman?? oops I did it again I was bashing him too
Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 3:01 pm
by The Instructor
Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 6:55 pm
by mustang_lvr
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 10:03 am
by valleyfan07
newlexpanthers wrote:Let me clerify.
There were people who felt that I didnt deserve another chance. Those are the people I am trying to prove wrong.
That is mighty nice of you newlex!!! One piece of advice from someone who knows, Don't let yourself be judged from a bunch of webposters!!!! I know there are some who disagree with me as I do them and you can explain yourself till you are blue but it doesn't help they will still judge you, even if you do apologize, so in short, live your life the way you see fit, always stand up for what you believe in (because others do too) and stay true to yourself and those around you who do matter. Don't let strangers you don't even know get you down!!!
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 11:14 am
by Focused
As we go through life, there is always "room for improvement" in all of us... We just need to recognize it and change for the better....
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 11:17 am
by valleyfan07
Focused wrote:As we go through life, there is always "room for improvement" in all of us... We just need to recognize it and change for the better....
AMEN
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 11:36 am
by mstangmom
valleyfan07 wrote:newlexpanthers wrote:Let me clerify.
There were people who felt that I didnt deserve another chance. Those are the people I am trying to prove wrong.
That is mighty nice of you newlex!!! One piece of advice from someone who knows, Don't let yourself be judged from a bunch of webposters!!!! I know there are some who disagree with me as I do them and you can explain yourself till you are blue but it doesn't help they will still judge you, even if you do apologize, so in short, live your life the way you see fit, always stand up for what you believe in (because others do too) and stay true to yourself and those around you who do matter. Don't let strangers you don't even know get you down!!!
CLUELESS, see you have no in-depth Idea as to what he is even referring to. If you did you would know that
for the most part his problems were with me, not so much the others (the threesome as you call us) you are referring to in your post.
sometimes I think you post crap like that just to get people to respond to you negatively so you got someone to have conversation's with.
And go figure he and I have been getting along just fine since his return to SEOP.
NLP has been through a lot in the last year, and in many ways this site posters (not completly, but with the first push) helped him more than it hurt him. who knows maybe you should listen to us a little more too, maybe we can get you the help you need.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 12:11 pm
by valleyfan07
As long as your help is free.
Mom, I nowhere in that post referred to "the threesome" not once!!! So there you go again jumping to conclusions!! Again, I want and have no hard feelings for anyone on here and wish we could all just move on!!!! IMO, it is getting really silly at this point and I vow to move on if you do. I have tried to call a truce but not sure that feeling is mutual. It is true what I stated however, again that does not mean I was referring to the threesome. IMO, I think you are a level headed person and can see that I have in more ways than one tried to end this bickering. I have made my point public and I guess am waiting to see how you feel. NO I don't like negative comments on either end. It seems the only time you respond is to argue. I have more than once asked to resolve this.
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 3:01 pm
by orange-n-brown 365
well newlex I can't ever remember having a disagreement with you but if you say you are changed then good for you